“'Why is this happening?' is the most useless question in the Universe.
The only really profitable question is, ‘What?’ As in, 'What do I choose now?' This question empowers.
The ‘why’ question simply perplexes, and rarely satisfies even when it gets a good answer. So don’t try to figure it out. Stop it. Just focus on what you now wish to create. Keep moving forward. There’s nothing behind you that can possibly serve you better than your highest thoughts about tomorrow.”—Neale Donald Walsch
“When a home is designed, or a community planned, the lives that will unfold in them are as important as the architectural concept they attempt to express. Proportions, materials, and light will all be backstage to the interactions between people.”—"Room For Thought" by Avi Friedman